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creating interest towards studies

01 Apr
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how to create interest towards studies to my son of age 13. he is very much interested in outdoor games, whole day he wants to play with his friends.

please give me the reply as soon as possible.

02 Apr
Dr. Ibrahim Abunada

Doctors Answer

Apr 02, 2016 06:51 AM

Dear, your son is behaving according to his normal developmental life stage like many other children entire the world. Therefore don’t be scared or panic of this behavior. It is very important for children of this age is to help him to organize and plan his daily time taking into consideration that the child should chose and involve all daily life behavior aspects, such as his school studies, playing sport, watching TV, participating in social activities and so on. Try to use your intelligence to handle this situation kindly and safely with your child. Therefore, I strongly recommend you to encourage your son to organize daily plan to daily different activities. Try not to force him to practice any unwanted activity. Try to engage some of his close friends to share him these activities. Try to positive reinforcing and rewording him according to his achievements. Try to be patient with him i.e. don’t punish or humiliate him if he doesn’t committed to any potential plan. Try to teach him through a special subject teacher in case he is not able to get high marks in certain subject. Try yourself to engage with him in certain activities such as outdoor mutual journey, shopping, watching games and so on. Don’t forget to reinforce him be verbal rewards most of the time particularly, when he achieve any improvement in his normal daily tasks. Take Care