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Unable to honor husband's sexual desires?

29 Oct
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Hello,

 I am a 28 years old mother of a 2 years old kid. My concern is - Is it required to have regular sex with spouse? After having my first child I don’t want sex at all, may be in near future my sexual desire will be back, but my Hubby doesn’t agree with this and we argue a lot. He says because I don’t love him now so I am behaving like this. I do love him, but I don’t want sex. Please help me how to convince my husbuand?

29 Oct
Dr. KV Anand

Doctors Answer

Oct 29, 2015 08:22 PM

Dear, sex is not just for pleasure. Sex is a divine act where to bodies and mind engages in sexual activities forgetting the whole world around them. Sex is in fact perfect meditation. Sex is pleasure only when there is love, affection and total involvement. I need to know why are you not interested in sex? Lack of interest in sex could happen because of many reasons including not reaching your climax. For any problem we have solutions. You are just 28. You should be able to enjoy sex and should help your husband too. At your age, sex atleast thrice a week is desirable. Please provide more information. Take care.