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Complaining nature

02 Nov
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User's Question

My husband keeps complaining about even a small mistake done by me.We all are human being, we do mistakes.I wonder why he is not able to control his complaining nature. Please suggest how to convince him.

03 Nov
Dr. KV Anand

Doctors Answer

Nov 03, 2015 07:31 PM

Dear, I can understand. I do not know your age or for how many years you are married and living together. In the initial phases of marriage, such differences and 'finger pointing' behavior are natural. But as time progresses, such behavior lessens. I want to know more about you and your husband and other details. I also suggest for family counseling. Take care.

05 Nov
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Follow up Question

Nov 05, 2015 09:28 AM

Thanks Dr Anand for taking time to answer my query.

I am 35 and he is 3 years elder to me. We have been married for 10 years. To attend to so many house chores and kids I miss out on putting things properly, like bottles will not be capped, light switches will be left on, clothes will be lying on floor etc and he gets irritated by this. I think there is no need to have everything properly. I think he takes unnecessary stress for these small things.

Sure, I will go for a family counselling later.