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I enjoy sad songs

09 Dec
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Whenever I feel depressed I listen sad songs . These songs gives me feeling of relaxation.  I feel that the person who is singing that sad song can understand my feelings and situation, so I find some connectivity there. My loved one does not like these kind of songs, so she is unable to enjoy my company. Please advice me how should I overcome this situation? 
11 Dec
Dr. KV Anand

Doctors Answer

Dec 11, 2015 08:06 PM

Dear, don;t worry. Everyone has their own personality, attitude, aptitude, skills, likings etc. You cannot force anything on to another person or any other person cannot force anything on you. When circumstances warrants, everyone accepts what is inevitable and unavoidable. Just do what ever you are doing and enjoy it. When your loved ne come and stay together with you, she will also like these, at least should accept your requirements. Take care.