A very good friend of mine is dating a boy from her school since the past four years.Luckily,they are in the city for college also. However,I have often noticed how the boy manipulates her and dominates her.Like if it is about the kind of clothes she wears,if he does not like it,she will not buy them,no matter how much she likes them.So is the case when it comes to making friends.Whereas,he himself is friends with a lot of girls and wants freedom but says that she is too sweet and the world is not so he wants to keep her safe. This is sheer stupidity and I believe abuse as well. She has become so introvert and lost confidence because she does not talk to many people neither does she have her own space.They have broken up many times but get back equally soon.I don't know how to explain to her that it is no good to be with such a person and that she needs a break for her own good. Please help! I have tried talking but doesn't work,even most of our friends have.