justifying molestation

16 Aug
Ayushi Jolly

Hello everyone!

So recently a very heart-throbbing incident took place of a school girl getting raped by a 40 year old.I fail to understand what made him do that.The girl,according to the people who justify rapes are girl's mistake,did not wear indecent clothes and neither did she do anything to provoke it,then why did this happen to her?Are we all so inhumane to not suppress our urge a little and engage in such dehumanizing acts?Little do we realize the psyche of the little girl.Nobody realizes that she might develop a fear for men for the rest of her life and get deprivated for basic things in life.Why do people do that?why do people even comment on the victim?Has mankind become so pleasure seeking that we have lost all the humanity?

Responses 4

  • Nimisha singh
    Nimisha singh   Aug 16, 2017 10:35 PM

    hey there

    This is the major problem of our society. I dont understand why everyone has a problem with the dressing sense of a girl. why do they understand that if a man has been provoked this is because that he has this negative feelings and desires. It is very easy for everyone to blame the girl but no one understands her condition. Instead of consoleing her and standing with people say things that hurts her more.

    Strict punishment should be given to these culprits. If you see the rape case history, the culprits are relised on bail, and so they think that nothing is going to happen to them and at last everyone forgets about it and the girl has to suffer. government to not give bails to these culprits. 


  • Radhika Goel
    Radhika Goel   Aug 16, 2017 09:43 PM

    Hii, hope you are doing well.

    You are not wrong in developing and questioning men's mentality and psyche while committing the said crime of molestation and rape or in questioning the what's left of humanity when it questions the victim and not the criminal. There are several reasons why people may become criminals and there is no one answer to this question. Lack of sex education in schools (lack of literacy in India), suppression of conversations about sex and safe sex, lack of open communication and safe network of family, friends or teachers for conversations, disregard of values and learning of disrespecting of women, and alcohol or drug addiction are just few of the factors and characteristic features of a criminals life. Things need to change from the start. The government, community, teachers, friends, and everyone else around a person is responsible for helping bring this change.

  • Sanjna Verma
    Sanjna Verma   Aug 16, 2017 08:57 PM

    Hello. Your questions are worth pondering upon. Seriously, even I think people are losing humanity by every inch be it in terms of corruption or any other criminal activity. All these activities are happening because of the sheer fact that males in the Indian families are not taught about controlling their sexuality but in the case of women, they are restricted in terms of clothing and behaviour because for a woman her hymen is to be kept sacred till marriage. 

    Had the man realised the pain of the child, obviously he would not have indulged in that act. I think such incidents are happening because they lack feelings of empathy and concern for other people. Also the fact that Indians consider sex as a taboo. So in those circumstances, they do not know how to channelise their urges properly. Even things like porn can have an impact towards such situations, now that almost everyone has access to Internet.

    In such cases of child abuse it is sorrowful that parents many of the times do not pay heed to their children's problems and look upon them because of the fear of the society.

    Everyone should learn to stand up and fight for themselves in these cases. No one has the right to suffer.


  • Shreya Narayanan
    Shreya Narayanan   Aug 16, 2017 07:19 PM

    Evening there,


    no one can predict what is going on in the other person's mind and that one has a right to privacy and their thoughts,but what about such thoughts which prevail in a person's mind when they think vulgarly about a small girl of five or ten?

    One of the reasons could be objectification of women. This has been happening on media and television since ages and I don't think anybody will deny the fact that we still watch some shows or movies and enjoy it for our own entertainment. Making such movie may get into a core club,by then what about the morals and values,the message it is sending to the society via this form of entertainment. 

    Second reason could be women not speaking up about it, because of fear. Now,we all know that silence is a dear friend of a criminal,and a criminal would always want the victim to stay silent and not draw any attention towards him/her. This is wrong. One must always raise his/her voice and try drawing as much as attention possible from the public.

    Men and women,both need to understand their psychology and their needs and prioritize them accordingly. Raping a young girl or a boy may please you for a while,but this ruins their childhood and their way of thinking is hampered forever if not given proper attention.

    Janta maaf nahi karegi aise logon ko.

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