We often are very open to new interactions. Sometimes these interactions turn into great freindship. We are often even told by our parents as to what kind of freind we should shave and how to choose freinds. So does it mean that we should not be open to others and have a long checklist or prior expectations from someone who we barely know. Should be gaurd ourselfs from any new social interactions, if our expectations are not met? Should there be boundries in freindship or should it be a free relationship? And how much to give in?