My grandfather has had two brain surgeries and is now completely okay. However, he is not strong enough to go to the shop and thus has to stay home. He spends most of his time watching telivision and directing everyone else around him. He wants everything to be done his way and ends up yelling at everyone. It gets quite frustrating for those of us around him to cater to alll his needs but we need to stay compassionate. I however find myself getting angry quite often, how can I control it?